A great person is not constrained by minor flaws.
大人大度 (대인대도) means A person of great character is not bound by petty faults but embraces them generously.. magnanimity means A noble generosity that forgives graciously even from a position able to take revenge.. Two cultures point to the same truth in different languages.
The Meeting
In the 4th century BCE, Mencius asked a disciple, "What kind of person is the great person (大人)?" And he answered — the great one is he whose heart is not stolen away by small things. In the same century, in Athens, Aristotle wrote of "megalopsychia" in his Nicomachean Ethics — megas (great) + psyche (soul) — the great soul being one who holds a self-regard fit only for great matters. The "great person" of the East and the "great soul" of the West, in the same century, spoke of human magnanimity through the same metaphor of "greatness."
The Eastern Story — Mencius's Great Person
Mencius (c. 372?–289? BCE), in the "Gaozi, Part One" chapter of the Mencius, divides the "great person" (大人) from the "small person" (小人). "He who follows the greater part of himself becomes a great person; he who follows the smaller part becomes a small person." Here the "greater part" is the heart-mind (心), and the "smaller part" is the senses of the ears and eyes. The great person meets the world with the breadth of the heart, while the small person has the heart stolen away by the calculations of immediate gain. The expression "daeindaedo" (大人大度) was built upon this Mencian tradition. A representative usage appears in the Book of the Later Han (Hou Han Shu), in the "Biographies of the Magicians," where Guo Tai is appraised as "a great person of great magnanimity, unbound by petty proprieties" (大人大度, 不拘小節). The expression was later cited in the poetry of Li Bai of the Tang and in the letters of Su Dongpo of the Song, cementing the equation "the size of one's magnanimity = the size of one's character."
The heart of daeindaedo lies in 度 (magnanimity, capacity). 度 originally meant "a ruler for measuring length." To have great magnanimity is to have a wide range that one can measure. A small measure cannot measure great things. The great person has no need to measure small faults — only things greater than themselves catch on their ruler. Embracing is not enduring; it is failing even to notice.
The Western Root — The Person of the Great Soul
The Latin "magnanimitas" is made of two parts: magnus (great) + animus (soul, spirit). Translated literally, "great soul" — and this is a literal translation of the Greek "megalopsychia." megas (μέγας, great) + psyche (ψυχή, soul). Aristotle (384–322 BCE), in Book IV of the Nicomachean Ethics, placed megalopsychia at the summit of virtue (arete). He defined it as "the great-souled person is one who is worthy of great honors and who also regards himself as such." What matters is that Aristotle's great soul was not arrogance but "a calm that is not shaken by small things." He wrote that "the great-souled person braves danger yet is not agitated by trifling matters, and does not react greatly to insult." The word entered English in the mid-14th century. The OED records its first use around 1340, noting that it settled into Middle English by way of the French magnanimite. In the English-speaking world in particular, magnanimity took on the meaning of "forgiving from a position of victory." Generosity that embraces the defeated rather than taking a victor's revenge — this is the core nuance of the English magnanimity.
A truth the etymology reveals: the opposite of magnanimity is pusillanimity — pusillus (very small) + animus (soul) — "small soul," that is, faint-heartedness. The contrast of great soul and small soul overlaps astonishingly precisely with Mencius's contrast of the great person and the small person. Both traditions speak of human magnanimity through "size," and see smallness not as evil but as immaturity.
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Oxford English Dictionary (OED)"magnanimity, n." OED Online. c1340 "greatness of mind or soul; generous and elevated character". From Old French magnanimite, from Latin magnanimitatem (nom. magnanimitas), from magnanimus "great-souled", from magnus "great" + animus "mind, soul".
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Online Etymology Dictionaryetymonline.com/word/magnanimity — From Latin magnanimitatem, translating Greek megalopsychia (Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics IV). Sense of "loftiness of spirit enabling one to bear trouble calmly, to disdain meanness, to display generosity" from 14c.
Shared Wisdom — Size Is Character
Both speak of human magnanimity through the metaphor of size (大 / magnus). The "大" of daeindaedo and the "magnus" of magnanimity are literal translations of each other. Both cultures convert physical size into spiritual size, establishing the equation that the breadth of one's magnanimity is the height of one's character.
Both make "not being shaken by small things" their core. Mencius's great person is unbound by petty proprieties, and Aristotle's great soul is not agitated by trifling insults. Embracing is not endurance but an indifference that arises naturally from a difference in size.
Both set "great" and "small" as a contrasting pair. Mencius contrasts the great person and the small person; Aristotle contrasts megalopsychia and pusillanimity. The two traditions agree that distinguishing the great from the small is the first step of moral judgment.
The difference: daeindaedo emphasizes magnanimity within relationship, while magnanimity emphasizes nobility of status. The Eastern great person centers on a generosity that embraces others, and the Western great soul centers on a just pride in oneself. Yet both traditions agree that "not letting the heart be stolen by small things" is the condition of greatness.
A Device to Remember — One Line to Take Home
- ✓ 大人大度 = a great (大) person (人) has great (大) magnanimity (度). Small faults do not enter the eye.
- ✓ magnanimity = magnus (great) + animus (soul) → a great soul = not being shaken by small things.
- ✓ Remember it in one line: "The sea is not stirred by a pebble — nor is the great person, nor the great soul."
"True greatness is revealed by the size of what one can hold."