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Reproach Yourself Much, Others Little
Reproach Yourself Much, Others Little asks: Busy digging up others' faults, do I put off looking first at myself? The film Le Corbeau (dir. Henri-Georges Clouzot) raises it; Analects of Confucius, Wei Ling Gong answers: "Demand much of yourself and little of others, and resentment stays far away."
Busy digging up others' faults, do I put off looking first at myself?
Demand much of yourself and little of others, and resentment stays far away.
Confucius said to hold a heavy measure to yourself and a light one to others.
📝The Classic Answers
Confucius said to hold a heavy measure to yourself and a light one to others. Most of us do the reverse — magnify others' faults and shut our eyes to our own. Anonymous accusations stain a town because each holds the opposite measure. Look first at yourself before blaming others, and resentment — and the poison that stains a town — recedes. Before raising a hand to judge someone, I choose first to hold that measure to myself.
🌱Apply It Today
If you wanted to point out someone's fault today, hold that measure to yourself once first.
The film is honored as an equal questioner; its plot is rendered only as a universal dilemma. The classic source is an ancient text (Public Domain), and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.