Seldom Set Foot in a Friend's House
Seldom set foot in your neighbor's house — too much of you, and they will hate you.
The closer the bond, do I forget the distance it still needs?
📝Reflection
That closeness needs distance, I learned only after losing a few bonds. However good the tie, too much clinging dulls two people to each other and soon becomes a burden. This verse notes that subtle sense of distance coolly. The friendship of the noble is plain as water. To leave while there is still a little longing, to leave the other room to miss you — that space is what makes a bond last.
🌱Apply It Today
In a close relationship today, leave a little space by stepping away while there is still some longing.
This verse is read as universal humanistic wisdom, not religion — no faith is promoted, and the reflection is 100% original ONGO content.